Two years, I can not believe it's been 2 years since BCT graduation happened at Fort Leonard Wood - how proud we as parents were of the man he had become during the months preceding graduation, and that's something that hasn't changed, we are still extremely proud of our son.
During those 2 years so many things happened to him and to us that it would be to much writing it all down again. I say again because I had actually blogged about it all, the relationship he had with his girlfriend, the small wedding we were only able to attend via skype, the father he was to her child, the Grandparents we became through her and the way we embraced them both and took them into our lives. I've deleted all those blogs again, because what I didn't blog about was the way she decided after barely a year that she didn't want to be married to my son anymore, that she didn't want to live where he lives and that he wasn't the man for her after all, but his best friend is. You can all imagine the end of that sad story and I won't bore you with all the ugly details and all the pain that came with the situation.
All of this proved once again that our little family is intact, that we can count on each other when truly needed and that you can come out of a dark time a stronger man. And he's just that, a strong man. One that is still close to his parents and still knows he can come home any time he needs to or we go and see him if we need to or want to and I hope that no matter what, that won't ever change.
We've been lucky in that we haven't had to see him off to a deployment yet and that he's been Stateside during the entire last 2 years. Of course nobody knows where the next 3 years will lead him but for now he's a safe 1000 miles away from home and so being an Army mom, although not always easy isn't horribly tough right now either since I can call him most anytime and email him and keep up with him on social networks, unlike many of my Army mom friends whose children are in some godforsaken sandboxes.
I will continue dealing with my only child no longer being a child and being far away from home, and will continue to be supportive in most all of his decisions and trying to be there for him whenever he needs me to be. I will enjoy each leave he gets to come home on and will make a few more trips around the world, stalking him whenever possible :)).
Hugs at a very difficult "see ya later".
A boy and his dog
Loving on his dogs
Saturday, August 11, 2012
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